If you need more than one reason to do something, Nassim Nicholas Taleb says, don’t do it. Otherwise, you’re just trying to convince yourself.
I’ve been watching ABBA documentaries lately, and Taleb’s wisdom comes to mind. There seems an awful lot of explaining why ABBA are so good. They doth affirm too much, methinks.
Here’s one reason: Amateurs sit and wait for inspiration, Benny sits and waits for dragons:
I’m a knight of armor, you know? I have to sit here and wait for the good notes to sort of come from somewhere. And if I’m not here they’re not going to come. It’s like… there’s a dragon in a cave, right? And you know it’s in there, but it’s never coming out, so you have to sit outside and wait for it. And you know if you sit there long enough, it’s going to come out; if you go home and take a nap, you’ll never see it, because that’s when it’s coming out.
I got appointments, work I have to do / keeping me so busy all the day through. Necessarily one of my people-sorting tools is “Do you like ABBA?”
“Yes!” means you’re possibly all right, but qualified approval indicates a potentially irreparable defect of the soul.
As for the no-ing you, there is nothing we can do.